ATTAINING OUR DESIRES Vol. 2        by Chuck Kelley

In Vol.1, I ended with the question of, “what could you possibly add to their experience”? Which means, what are you offering that complements and completes them, what are your qualities that make you irresistible to them, what benefits do you provide that is not readily available elsewhere…what makes you, unquestionably, the one for them, and in turn, them, unquestionably, the one for you?

When we view and/or review our personal and our personal/intimate relationships with these questions in mind, it becomes much clearer how certain situations and circumstances arise. Both sides must be in tune and in harmony with the other or soon it just becomes noise.

Let’s take this a step further and examine our relationship energy and behaviors toward our other desires. For some, this may seem a bit far out, yet the quantum scientist have proven it many times over. So, open your mind to something new and different, because until you do, you have and, at best, shall continue to have exactly what you’ve gotten so far.

Using the example of the desire for money it becomes very interesting, very quickly.

Your desire for money is an idea. Money, itself, is an idea. Money, in and of itself, in physical form is only a symbol for an agreed upon value to be used in trade for goods and/or services. Two ideas, floating along…how do we bring them together?

What is your relationship with money? How do you treat it? Do you trust money? Do you believe that money will be there when you need it? Do you have fun with money? Do you share your money with friends? Do you create exciting and valuable new experiences with money? Do you let your money do good deeds?

If money were a person, a living thing, why would it want to be with you? Why would money value being in your presence?

To be continued…




Chuck Kelley
Since his early teens, Chuck Kelley has tried to understand what makes us tick. Having had a troubled youth, he sought anything and everything that might assist him in getting his life together. Feeling universally misunderstood, he was determined to understand our nature and find some peace in his heart. Wanting to fit in while believing that he was totally unacceptable, he spent the majority of his life trying to become who and what he was not. The successes in business, the restaurants, the food manufacturing companies and all the other businesses he owned and operated, meant little to nothing to him because his accomplishments felt small when compared to certain others'. He felt that he was cursed to living a life of not being enough. Over the past forty plus years, Chuck has read practically every self help book, taken practically every self help course and tried an equal amount of self help programs. Along the way he has become certified in practically everything that hints of personal development, such as; Life Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Hypnosis. In short, he is a walking, talking self-help clearinghouse. Now, he shares the things that work universally and he leaves out the rest. Having discovered that perfection is unattainable, and acceptance is subjective, he continues his research into every field that may lend insights into how to be more comfortable in our own skin and thrive in life. Embracing and openly admitting his perfectly perfect imperfections, "Because that's how I roll", has brought him more freedom than a massive trust fund. His wish is to save others the time, trouble and the wear and tear.
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