REFOCUSING TO SEE                by Chuck Kelley

This particular article/blog thingy is not about seeing rather than looking. That one comes later…and it’s a cool one…this one is too. (!)

This one is about limited scope, defining a picture by dissecting a single pixel and basically being full of it! We do it all the time!

In NLP they call it the 1%. We can always find at least 1% of any person, place, thing or idea, regardless of all else, that we can agree with 100%. This process is normally done deliberately and with some difficulty, because somewhere down deep, we do not want to agree with anything that has to do with this !@#$%*&^*!. We loathe this !@#$%^&*!! !@#$%^&*!!!!

Funny how doing the opposite comes so easily and naturally…Check out the comments beneath any article, blog, video…anything that provides  the opportunity for someone to give their thoughts…on anything. OMG!!! Cruel, demeaning, harsh, petty, conniving and nasty comments litter each page…after page…In almost every case it’s that 1% of a person, place, thing or idea rubbed someone the wrong way and now the entirety of that person, place, thing or idea or a combination of those is declared 100% flawed!

WE DO THAT CONSTANTLY.

DON’T!

 

 

 

Chuck Kelley
Since his early teens, Chuck Kelley has tried to understand what makes us tick. Having had a troubled youth, he sought anything and everything that might assist him in getting his life together. Feeling universally misunderstood, he was determined to understand our nature and find some peace in his heart. Wanting to fit in while believing that he was totally unacceptable, he spent the majority of his life trying to become who and what he was not. The successes in business, the restaurants, the food manufacturing companies and all the other businesses he owned and operated, meant little to nothing to him because his accomplishments felt small when compared to certain others'. He felt that he was cursed to living a life of not being enough. Over the past forty plus years, Chuck has read practically every self help book, taken practically every self help course and tried an equal amount of self help programs. Along the way he has become certified in practically everything that hints of personal development, such as; Life Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Hypnosis. In short, he is a walking, talking self-help clearinghouse. Now, he shares the things that work universally and he leaves out the rest. Having discovered that perfection is unattainable, and acceptance is subjective, he continues his research into every field that may lend insights into how to be more comfortable in our own skin and thrive in life. Embracing and openly admitting his perfectly perfect imperfections, "Because that's how I roll", has brought him more freedom than a massive trust fund. His wish is to save others the time, trouble and the wear and tear.
Chuck Kelley

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